Tips For A Successful Online Dating Experience

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3 Steps to Spice Up Your Love Life

Here are three easy steps to take to catch the eye of someone special:

1. Punch up your profile photos (you have photos, right?) Make sure they're up to par for the season ... Think fun, rich colors, in-focus, good hair and warm smiles. If what you have right now doesn't make the grade, post new ones -- it's the easiest way to get more attention and catch the eye of local members.

2. Snazz up your profile, especially your essays. Add at least a couple of new details about wonderful you. Go ahead and mention some of those resolutions. And come up with a fabulous cold-weather date for your "ideal first date" essay. Don't forget to spell check.

3. Splurge on a new do and have at least one outfit that makes you feel absolutely fabulous. If nothing in your closet does it for you, hit the stores. A small investment into feeling good about your look can go a long way on the love scene.

Dating Checklist (Try these simple steps every week for the next month and watch your love life take a new turn...)

  • At the beginning of the week, search for local singles and update your favorites list. New people are joining the site daily.
  • Contact at least 2 people that catch your eye. Keep your first emails short, but be sure to personalize them and add some charm by mentioning something unique that you like about every person.
  • If you connect with someone, make the effort to meet offline. Try getting together for a warm drink at a cozy café.
  • Get out of the house and do at least one activity that you love. You're most attractive when you're being yourself and having fun.

Pick a Stand-out Username

Your username is like your smile -- the first thing that people see – so try to make it shine! Keep it short and catchy, and remember that whatever you write should be a true reflection of you and something that will attract the kind of people you want to go out with. Funny always gets peoples' attention, as does heartfelt and honest.

What's Hot What's Not
SanFranChick
TonyToniTone!!!
SugarNSpice
WannaBeLikeMike
Princess Leia
LoveandCare
BabyBlueEyes
Schmoopy
DegasBallerina
CrazyIntoHoops
RusticRalph
LifesABeach
ComfyInSneakers
SurfsUp
Cheforama
BrownEyedGoofyGrrrrrl
MrDeedsMeetsMotown
RockNRollRita
 Tom
HotLover
Bored w/ Life
Yo' Mama
NE14A69
STILL Looking
SuperFreak
SomeYoungGuy
Hopeless in Halifax
Dr. Hardbody
LonelyLaura
GettingBackIn
TrulyTrying

Don't Be Shy--Contact the People That Catch Your Eye

Don't just sit by your Inbox waiting for an email from Cinderella or Prince Charming to miraculously appear. If you're really serious about finding a date, your soul mate or even a friend, the best thing to do is to stay active on the site, and that means getting out there and contacting the people you're interested in. This might seem scary to some of you at first, but remember, everyone is here to mix & mingle, and a simple note may be all it takes to ignite the spark you've been waiting for.

Here are some tips to get the ball rolling:

  • MAKE A PLAN. Set time aside every week to look through profiles, and keep a sharp eye out for new members who have the qualities you're looking for.
  • SET GOALS. Try to contact a minimum number of members every week (3 is a good number). But only contact the ones that seem interesting to you.
  • KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. Know yourself and know what you're looking for—and say it directly to those you want to meet.
  • DON'T BE SHY. Ask a lot of questions—this is your chance to get the skinny before you meet.
  • PAY ATTENTION. "Listen" carefully to responses—they're very telling; ask questions if something bothers you.
  • GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE. It may take a few emails to get warmed up, and if romance isn't in the air, you may have found a new friend.
  • BE YOURSELF. Be open and honest in your profile and email—it's you they want to get to know.
  • HAVE FUN. Be creative, flirtatious, vivacious with your words—and laugh whenever possible.
  • SHOW GENUINE INTEREST. Mention what caught your eye in their profile and ask engaging questions to keep the communication open.
  • SHOW THAT SMILE. Post photos with your profile to help break the ice.
  • BE COURAGEOUS. Give it a whirl—you never know who you might meet until you try.

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